We are learning that we must start saying some things differently regarding adoption. Here is a list of phrases and their replacements provided by Bethany Christian Services:
Rather than "real parents" say "birthparents," "birthmother," or "birthfather."
Rather than "natural parents" say "biological parents."
Rather than "real child" say "birthchild."
Rather than "put up for adoption" say "make an adoption plan."
Rather than "give up for adoption" say "choose adoption."
Rather than "is adopted" say "was adopted."
These minor variations make a big difference.
